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Depression

Depression

We are all human, even the famous funniest people… the people who make us feel happy… those we describe as having ‘good vibes’, check on them they might be going through depression. In extreme cases it might end up in suicide. RIP Robbin Williams

Tsepho a law graduate who has been jobless for over 7years describes depression as state of numbness, stagnancy and brain freeze.

Depression /Ukudana in Ndebele/ Kushushikana mupfungwa in Shona is a constant feeling of sadness and loss of interest, which stops you doing your normal activities. Different types of depression exist, with symptoms ranging from relatively minor to severe. Generally, depression does not result from a single event, but from a mix of events and factors.

Causes of depression include the of a loved one, job loss, illness, substance miss-use that is use of alcohol and drugs which will make one feel better temporatily but ultimately aggravate depression

Signs and symptoms that someone is depressed.

Ways to beat depression.

Appetite or Weight changes: There is term widely used by many called ‘comfort eating’, this is when one find comfort in overeating their favourite food like ice-cream, candy etc. Because there is an element of over-eating, they then gain weight some call it Kuruta in Shona, ….in Ndebele where as some people find it hard to eat when they are depressed

Isolation: Most depressed people feel the need to be own their own, they get irritated easily when there is company they just want to be secluded. 

A continual negative mood: This occurs when one is often sad, speaks negatively about themselves, is always worried and anxious

Loss of interest in activities: With depression, the zeal to live ceases to exist. the most outgoing person suddenly retreats.

Living in the past: A depressed person often lives in the past, the do not allow themselves to be happy in the present, their happiness is spoken in memories. They try to relieve their glory and can’t get hold of it in the present, hence it ends in frustration.

Irritability, frustration or pessimism: A person living with depression is often frustrated and irritable, most of their conversation end up with a conclusion in doom.

Difficulty in thinking clearly: This is characterised by bad decision making, lack of concentration be it at work, school etc.

Fatigue or decreased energy /kungo neta neta

Trouble sleeping or over sleeping

How to treat depression.

It is important to treat depression at its early stages to avoid severe cases such as being suicidal. Healing will not happen over night but over a series of counselling sessions, opening up to and seeking professional help, consistently taking medication if the depression has been clinically diagnosed.

Ways to beat depression.

Depression can be treated by trying to reset. Re discover passion, learning a new skills, making new friends, changing environment, exercising ,yoga

Change of environment and rediscover your self.

Through travel our feet learn and adjust  to be in different spaces .The more time we spend away from familiar routines, the more we learn to embrace the unknown and abandon ourselves into the universe

Live a little

Be more accepting. Make new friends over a basketball match be it a football match, church etc any social event one can go to  can help with depression.

Developing a new skill

like gardening can be rewarding as one is able to see results which can be a form of accomplishment and progression. Being out in fresh air is a natural way to beat depression, and one of the most highly effective methods. Being outside with living plants, trees, and the soil gives us a rooted feeling, and can make us feel more alive. It naturally boosts your mood in ways you might not even realize. Plus, it’s hard to be in a bad mood when you’re marvelling at all the bright colours nature has to offer.

Exercising, listening to music and meditation

helps in calming the mind and enhancing the mood. Dancing as part of exercise also helps in livening up the mood.

Find someone to talk to

a stranger…a therapist…a friend… Rupasa is the plug. We talk to you in which ever form you would like both online and physically. Rupasa/Mat is a safe place to lay down your thoughts, we help you relax by creating a free, friendly comfortable environment. We assure you that it is not the end of the world as they are professionals ready to listen and care for you as you recover.

https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/depression

References

7 Ways gardening helps with DEPRESSION…

https://life.shared.com/these-15-quotes-from-robin-williams-him-will-make-you-see-life-in-a-new-way

https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/depression

https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/depression